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Lessly Field's avatar

I’ve been playing Bob Seger for the last year. Such a great storyteller with an amazing voice!!

I always encourage ‘alternative’ breast cancer people to find out the cure and survival rates of patients with the same cancer from the ‘doctor’ before committing. It feels like some people just have a death wish . . .

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Jim Ryser's avatar

I hope - if cancer ever knocks on my door - that I will have access to you. I can relate to snake oil salesmen and women 100% in my field (addiction and chronic non cancer pain). I came from a bit of a different side of “evidence” which was misinformation by docs and pharma to make money. I clearly remember the Porter and Jick “evidence” and watched pain specialists lapping up huge profits. Meanwhile I was lauded for “allowing my patients to suffer” for helping them get off of opioids, change lifestyle, help with the head shrinking traumas that exacerbated their pain, etc. Addiction and opioid induced hyperalgesia were poo pooed by many “experts” but understood when I saw the $ involved. I also saw “ultra rapid detox” as a thing. None of it worked and we see where we are with opioids of today.

In your case, however, denial in the patient became the tool of division - he wanted an easier softer way and went for it. Not your fault and certainly nothing you could say could convince him in any other way. I know how denial works and it’s a disease unto itself imo.

I sure appreciate you listing the conundrum you as the provider who KNOWS went through. It’s hard to see people smugly walking out the door to a likely miserable death. I saw it a lot over my career. The ones I remember today are the ones who came back and said, “Yeah, I think you might be right here and I’ll go thru what I need to.”

A clinician who does not bullshit or paint rosy pictures who is - HUMAN - is rare. I’m glad to know you are fighting this fight because you are clearly the right kind of doctor for such a terrible ordeal of treatment.

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